A Blessing Way Is A Sacred Pre-Birth Ceremony That Celebrates A Woman’s Rite Of Passage Into Motherhood. Entering the divine Mother. Those Attending Celebrate Sisterhood, The Welcoming Of A New Baby And Honour A Women’s Journey Into Motherhood.

WHAT IS A BLESSING WAY OR MOTHER'S BLESSING? 

The idea of a Blessing Way (also known as a Mothers Blessing Ceremony) is to celebrate a new mother rising or a mother who has been on her own deep journey of healing and maybe she is transforming from the mother she ounce was in this new birth. A Blessing Way can be done in place of or in addition to a “Baby Shower”. A Blessing Way is less focused on the baby and more a gathering of loved one to honour a woman’s rite of passage into motherhood. Weather she has had 1 or more births. The intention of a Blessing Way is to support a Mama in gathering strength and confidence in her upcoming labor and support in her unfold into her journey through mothering her new baby. 

Each Mother Blessing is uniquely co-created for the Mother often the ceremony will include:
🌿 Hand-made flower crown for the mama-to-be
🌿 Red thread ritual and or foot watching ceremony
🌿 Nature centrepiece created to bless the centre of the circle we gather around

I am passionate about creating sacred ceremonies for Mama's to be and bring sacred back to what I believe is the most sacred right of passage event, becoming a mother. I aim to create a special and sacred place for all who attend. I work closely with mamma and her support team to facilitate and hold a space that flows with grace and ease. I come with an open-heart and mind. The Blessing Way is not associated with a singular path or religion, but rather, an inclusive, co-created space that is aimed to allow all to feel comfortable and safe.

RED THREAD RITUAL

We close the circle with a red thread ritual. This ritual consists of passing thread around the circle of woman. Each woman wraps the thread around her wrist and the passes it to the woman next to her who does the same. The thread joins all the women in a circle, when separated each woman stands alone in her own power, yet knowing the support of her family and friends as she begins the journey of motherhood and beyond. All attendees are asked to continue wearing the read thread and every so often send the mama-to-be positive, loving thoughts. Each woman wears the thread until we hear the news that the new mother has birthed her baby, only then is the thread removed with a sweet intention and loving prayer. The red thread symbolises our lineage of ancestors, our matriarchal line that extends beyond and in front of us for thousands of years. It reminds us of the many women who have come before us. Remembering we can call on this powerful line of grandmothers behind us for to support and guidance as we move forward on our journey while also celebrating those children & grandchild we are yet to meet. 

THE FOOT BATH

The alchemy that happens when marrying water and plants has a profound healing effect, especially when the water is infused with your love and adoration for life. Combining flower petals and warm water. Gently and devotedly ease the Mama's feet into the water. As she soaks her feet, welcome women to bow down to her, and if they feel to massage and wash her feet, ankles and calves. She is carrying extra weight in the form of baby, placenta, liquids and increased blood volume. Loving touch can do wonders to relieve her tired and possibly swollen feet. As this is done the women are making a symbolic commitment to truly be there for the mama as she needs help, whether that means bringing her meals postpartum, coming to her home and washing dishes for her, holding the baby so she can take a shower or taking her older child for a walk. Songs and laughter are welcome as the group takes time to lighten her load.

The Closing of the Bones ceremony is a deeply meaningful and ancient tradition that has been practiced by various cultures around the world for centuries. Rooted in reverence and respect for the postpartum experience, this ceremony holds space for women to undergo a transformative journey of healing, closure, and renewal.

The Closing of the Bones ceremony has its origins in cultures such as Latin America, Mexico , Asia, and Africa, where it has been passed down through generations as a sacred rite of passage for women during the postpartum period. It is a ritual that honours the physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of childbirth and motherhood.

At its core, the Closing of the Bones ceremony is designed to nurture and support women as they transition into motherhood. It serves as a holistic healing practice that helps to restore balance, vitality, and connection within the body, mind, and spirit after the profound experience of childbirth. Through gentle massage, wrapping, and other nurturing techniques, the ceremony facilitates the closure of the pelvic bones, symbolizing the completion of the childbirth process and the beginning of a new chapter in a woman's life.

Pelvic Healing and Closure

Many women experience a profound sense of being "broken open" after childbirth, both physically and emotionally. The Closing Ceremony acknowledges the complexity of the pelvis and its role in childbirth, addressing the physical and emotional aspects of postpartum healing. By focusing on the second chakra, " Sacral ," associated with emotions and the unconscious, the ceremony helps release tension and trauma stored in the hips and pelvic region, promoting emotional release and energetic balance.

Incorporating the Mexican Rebozo Wrap

Central to the Closing of the Bones ceremony is the use of the Mexican rebozo wrap, a traditional shawl woven with cultural significance. The rebozo is draped and gently rocked around the mother's body, providing support and comfort while facilitating the alignment of the pelvic bones. This ancient practice honors the wisdom of indigenous traditions and fosters a deep connection with the ancestral lineage of childbirth and motherhood.

Postpartum Considerations:

It is recommended that massage be conducted no earlier than six weeks after birth, allowing for proper healing and recovery. Depending on the type of birth experienced, such as vaginal delivery or cesarean section, specific massage techniques and adjustments can be discussed and tailored to your individual circumstances.

Healing and Sacred Ceremony:

In addition to supporting women who have recently given birth, the Closing of the Bones ceremony holds profound significance for individuals who have experienced various forms of pregnancy or early both experiences , infant loss, including miscarriage, abortion, or child loss. This sacred ritual offers a compassionate space for honouring the mother's womb, acknowledging grief, and reclaiming wholeness. By bringing awareness and intention to the journey of healing, the ceremony facilitates the restoration of energy and the reconnection with Sankhya, the sacred essence of life.

Facilitator:
Chantal, creates a safe and sacred space for the Closing of the Bones ceremony. Drawing upon her intuitive abilities and connection with spirit, Chantal works with the energies of the mother and earth mother and holds an intimate ceremony tailored to your individual needs. With compassion and reverence, she guides participants through a transformative experience, honouring the sacredness of life and supporting the journey of healing and renewal.

If wish you to experience the profound healing and transformation of the Closing of the Bones ceremony at your chosen location, Whether you are navigating the joys and challenges of new motherhood or seeking solace and healing after pregnancy or infant loss, Chantal will work with you and your support team with compassionate experience to support you every step of the way.

Birth or loss Story Sharing:

Begin your ceremony by sharing your birth or loss story within a nurturing and supportive space, allowing for a deep connection and understanding of your journey.

Sacred Ritual and Energy Work:

Experience a personalised blend of womb massage techniques and energy work, tailored to your specific needs and preferences. I work intuitively in the space I may use crystal bowls rattle or a drum. I integrate these practices seamlessly into the ceremony to promote relaxation, balance, and healing.

Rebozo Ritual:

Embrace the ancient tradition of the Rebozo Ritual, where six rebozos are gently draped and tied around your body, symbolising the cocooning of mother and baby and fostering a sense of security and restoration.

Attire: Participants are encouraged to wear loose, comfortable clothing to facilitate relaxation and ease of movement during the ceremony.

Child-Free Environment: To fully immerse in the experience, it is recommended to arrange for a child-free environment with no interruptions during the ceremony. You are welcome to have support there if needed especially if your working though grief. I can also incorporate your support into  the ceremony.
 
Location: Ceremonies can be conducted in my serene setting at Muriwai Beach or in the comfort of your own home, I would suggest your home if you are working though loss. Offering a familiar and safe intimate space for your journey of healing and renewal. Please note that additional charges may apply for ceremonies held outside of Auckland, depending on travel distance.